| Location | Manchester |
| Age | 35 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1972 |
| Date of Death | 7/2007 |
| Visitors | 5,716 since 17/02/2008 |
| Creator |
´*•.¸(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)¸.•*´ THANK YOU TO ALL MY GTS FRIENDS WHO HAVE MADE IT THAT BIT
EASIER FOR US AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. WE ARE ALL TRULY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR CANDLES AND TRIBUTES, GOD
BLESS ALL YOUR ANGELS, LOVE FROM JULIE & ELAINE ´*•.¸(*•.¸♥ ¸.•*´)¸.•*´
Allan Partington was not only my brother he was also my soul mate and candle! My candle went out on
the 17th July 2007. He was thirty five years young when he took his own life. He had a loving wife
Elaine, step son Steven, daughter Harriette, sister Carol, brother Lee and many nephews and neices!
Not to forget Grandad to baby Day Day! (He was proud to be a young Grandad) Allan was adopted by his
wifes Elaine's family, they absolutely loved him. Alan was a joke a minute he was funny caring
and loyal. Just before Allan passed he was so happy, sounds ironic as he took his own life, but all
that knew him know it was a mad moment that took him to spirit. Allan was part of the local pool
team, he was in the Moston football team, was always first up on karoke!! All that knew him loved to
hear him sing Mac the knife and Kingston Town! I need to thank Monica and Family, Uncle Les and all
at the Labour Club for all the support and kindness they showed to all of us in the immediate
passing of Allan and for the continous support we all still receive. Thank you to all the people
that attended the funeral, i have never seen so many people pay their respects before. To the local
Paper Shop that closed until ater the funeral to pay their respects it truly was heart felt.
Allan had many nick names (being ginger and only having one eye!)
Algipan, Ginger nut, Turkey Boots, Boggle, Woggle Eye, Cyclops, Pickle and Sweety!!
All the above Allan answered to with the humour it was given he was a true comedian!
Only having one eye did not stop Allan! He passed his driving test, obtained a fork lift licence,
nearly always got away with bad tackles at football "Blind side Ref!!" Always did charades
with the kids "POPEYE" he would literally give the sign for i will do the whole thing then
pop out his eye!
I have so many funny stories of Allan which i will attatch over time, i just needed to honour him on
this site as the dead cannot die if we still talk and think about them.
Allan keep sending me signs and give dad a big kiss from me Julie Wombat x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
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Tear soup
HELPFUL INGRIEDIENTS TO CONSIDER
* a pot of tears
* one heart willing to be broken open
* a dash of bitters
* a bunch of good friends
* many handfuls of comfort food
* a lot of patience
* BUCKETS of water to replace the tears
* plenty of exercise
* a variety of helpful reading material
* enough self care
* seasons with memories
* optional: one good therapist and or Good Support Group For example - Parents of suicide ..... POS
DIRECTIONS:
Choose the size pot that fits your loss.
It's okay to increase the pot size if you have miscalculated.
Combine ingredients.
Set tempreture for a moderate heat.
Cooking time depending on the ingriedients needed.
Strong flavours mellow over time.
Cook no longer than you need to.
SUGGESTIONS:
* Be creative
* Trust your instincts
* Cry when you want to
* Laugh when you can
* Freeze some to use as a starter next time
* Write your own sout making a journal so you wont forget
SERVES ONE
My New Normal
I hate this new normal, I want the old one back.
When the all of us were together and
there was nothing that I lacked.
All your birth dates were imprinted,
on my memory when you were born
Now, with this new normal,
I have a death date, too, that I mourn.
Yes, I hate this new normal,
we didn't plan for this at all.
Your future is now just past memories
and sometimes too painful to recall.
I used to feel one hundred percent,
but now the most is seventy-five.
The joys and hopes that I now have
are minus one quarter, my child died.
There are no more celebrations,
only 'occasions' that we share,
We adjust to our new normal,
because you're no longer here.
You don't walk through the door any more,
your laughter we do not hear.
The only thing I can hope for now,
are my dreams to bring you near.
Oh yes, I hate this new normal that
just came and settled in.
I hate it, I hate it, I hate it...
I want the 'old normal' back again
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We little knew that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
Always in our thoughts
Forever in our hearts
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(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`♥ A ♥ X ♥ X
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
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Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
OUR SPECIAL ANGELS LOVED & MISSED FOREVER
I picked a star to wish upon
from all the stars above
i closed my eyes and made a wish
to send you all my love
i made a wish to heaven
a wish with all my heart
that one sweet day
we will be with you
our beautiful precious angels again
never again to part..X..
LOVE
HUGS
AND
KISSES
ALWAYS AND FOREVER
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Hi hun, not liking this new gts site, too complicated. Tried to send you a tribue last week. wrote my message. tried to submit it and lost it all, gave up.
Kingston Towns playing, reminds me of our friday night music night. Not been able to listen to ub40 since you left. Infact not able to listen to any of our music, had to buy new tunes.
Still miss u hun, don't think i'll ever stop missing you.
Christine and jordan are still with me, makes living here more bearable.
Had a message from your girl Harriette on face book. So nice to hear from her. She purchased herself a computer and is having fun on face book.
well hun love you loads, miss you and always will. xx
A Life Filled With Love
May you find peace and tranquility
in a world you may not always understand.
May the anguish you have experienced
give you strength through life’s journey.
.
Always know that my love
will always be there for you,
Even when you feel alone.
I will always be there.
May you discover the good in others
to believe in a world of peace.
May a kind word, a reassuring touch,
or a warm smile be yours every day of your life.
Remember there are rainbows
that come after the storms.
You only have to believe
in the sunshine after the rain.
Show love to those
who only know hate,
and let that love embrace you
as you walk out into this world.
May you find the time each day
to look for the beauty and love
in the world around you.
It is there; you only have to seek.
May you find the inner strength
to determine your own value,
and not depend on other's judgments
in regard to your accomplishments.
May you cherish each and every day,
and find the love in yourself for others.
And, my wish for you--
May your life always be filled with love.
WITH LOVE FROM TINA ALWAYS
YEARS OF STRIVING
LITTLE A PLAY
LOVING, GIVING THE WHOLE OF THE WAY
CHERISHED SMILE , A HEART OF GOLD
TO THE DEAREST DAD SON BROTHER GRANDAD HUSBAND
THE WORLD COULD HOLD
HAPPY MEMORIES
FOND AND TRUE
FROM US WHO THOUGHT THE WORLD OF YOU
GOOD WAS HIS HEART
HIS FRIENDSHIP SOUND
LOVED AND RESPECTED BY ALL AROUND
TO A BEAUTIFULL LIFE
CAME A SUDDEN END
HE DIED AS HE LIVED
EVERY ONES FRIEND
ALL MY LOVE HUGS KISSES AS ALWAYS FROM TINA
forever young
Trapped in the glorious years
within the memory of belief, lost of all grief.
Take the reasons,
which once seemed so clear,
but never mind, you have nothing to fear.
For you my fried will be, forever young,
Forever in the heart of memories.
Lost in the glory of all time,
the wisdom was there within that smile,
You see you could have told us,
there within lies the mystery.
So shed a smile, and grin a tear,
For you my friend, will be,
Forever young, Forever young.
Forever in the heart of memory,
We see not through or misery.
Forever young, forever young.
There's a angel in heaven watching over you.
SPECIAL ANGEL
This is a very special angel
As you can plainly see
The reason it's so special is
It's just for you, from me.
Whenever you are lonely
Or even feeling blue
You only have to hold this angel
To know I think of you.
So keep this angel with you
As a reminder of the joys we've shared
And remember it's a symbol
Of a loving heart that cares.
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